
by Robb Davis
I attended the “Breaking the Silence of Racism” event at Community Chambers on Saturday – an uncomfortable event in which we told and listened to painful stories with our neighbors in Davis and Yolo County. As I listened to the vignettes (each speaker was limited to about 3 minutes to share their stories), I began to consider not just the content of each but how each struck me in terms of how “real” they sounded to me. In other words, I began to examine how I was hearing the stories.
When I heard the story of a white man my age (a man I know and respect), about how his biracial grandchildren were verbally abused by students in the Davis school system, my throat clenched and my heart raced. As the man nearly broke down, I felt I might do the same. As a grandfather of two (very young) biracial grandchildren I could feel his hurt, anger and confusion and I accepted both the validity of his story and the pain that went with it.