by Jerika L.H.
The introduction to this article will be purposefully short on the grounds that this piece is a much needed exercise in listening, instead of sermoning. However, I would be remiss if I did not divulge that every single individual I interviewed highlighted only a select few out of a rich collection of incidents to recount.
Thus, these stories are in no way comprehensive, but instead only a snippet – a thumbnail image of content that is too copious to fully grasp in one view. It is an excerpt from a longer chapter on the daily microaggressions of racism.
It is also important to note that some students abstained from noting things that were simply too traumatic to share. Therefore, this sampling does not express interactions which were categorized as ‘the worst’ that the speaker had experienced.
These accounts were not lifted from 1950’s Birmingham – they reference life in present day Davis, California.
Davares Robinson
Davares Robinson articulately explains how displays of anti-blackness are ever present as he divulges some of his own experiences. “As a black man attending a highly regarded R-1 institution, I have encountered various instances that appear to be rather typical for a black student attending a college that is not an HBCU (Historically Black College). Micro-agressions flourish here.
“They are the occasional remorseless stares of disdain that I receive as I’m walking to class, the library, or any public space. It is me making eye contact and smiling only to witness the re-tightening of the grip between two lover’s hands. It is the indistinguishable voice of one student amongst five hundred students, whispering, ‘yeah right,’ after my psychology professor says that there is no difference in intelligence amongst students; while discussing unethical practices in past experiments among students of color and their white counterparts to justify otherwise.
“It is my childhood friend saying, ‘I think that ALL Lives Matter is a better statement.’ It is me being told that a romantic relationship between me and a non-black student cannot happen because of our ‘cultural differences’ but yet a sexual relationship will do.
“Macroagressions live here. It is me nearly getting pummeled by bikers, while silently protesting to Mrak Hall and holding up a sign that reads, ‘#BlackUnderAttack.’ It is me and my peers being referred to as ‘niggercunts’ on social media platforms to counter our plea to have students oppose anti-blackness in all of its variations. It is me live streaming a black lives matter protest, and reading comments that say, ‘I Hope they die.’ It is here because everything was founded on needed perpetuation of it.”
Kyla Burke
Kyla Burke is a 5th year Environmental Science & Management major. She notes that when she shares her experiences with racism, she is always taken aback at how shocked white people are that her accounts actually happened.
To her, this is a testament to how commonplace micragressions have become and how much she has normalized them. Her most unsettling memory of biased treatment in Davis involved seeing her beloved father, a 6’2″ Jamaican man with dreadlocks, being treated as a criminal spectacle when he came to visit her at the dorms.
“I lived in the Segundo dorms and didn’t give him the best directions so he ended up driving down California Ave. to where the gate is. When he got to the gate he turned around and started to drive back. The cops pulled him over for no reason. He wasn’t speeding. He was driving slow, looking for me. He didn’t have his lights out or anything like that. As far as we could tell he was pulled over because they found him suspicious and a black man on campus at night. They ran his license even though they had no right to and when I walked up they wouldn’t let me approach the car until they were done.”
Kyla has also been aggressively told by a Davis citizen that she should be working to eradicate rape instead of spending her energy on addressing injustices within the black community. She has been slighted not only by police and random passerbyers, but also by her peers.
“My sophomore year I was at a party at AEPi and it was pretty crowded. I was walking into the backyard when I heard someone behind me say, ‘There are too many black people at this party.’ I turned around kind of shocked and his friend noticed me and pointed me out. The guy who made the comment got embarrassed and they got away from me quick. I left the party because I was upset and when I was walking down Russell I walked by SAE and you could see from the street that one of the members had a confederate flag hanging on his door.”
Lawrence K
Lawrence K. was a freshman interested in Davis for its music department. He is an avid percussion and horns enthusiast, and self-identifies as a “band nerd.”
“My very first class at Davis. Like literally, the first experience I had. We were supposed to get into groups and interview the other student, then present their story to the class as a way to get to know each other. I was paired with a guy sitting on the aisle across from me. As soon as the professor signaled to start the group work, the guy turned to me and said “WASSSSUP MY NI**A!!!” in this funny voice like he was mimicking Dave Chappelle as he threw up some hand signal that I guess is supposed to be a gang sign, or a greeting, or – I don’t even know.
“I laughed as a reflex, or lack of another response – like a laugh of embarrassment. But it actually really pissed me off inside and humiliated me. I didn’t want to work with the guy. Lots of people heard and laughed and I felt like I was already otherized. I finally said to him…’hey, why did you call me “my n*gga”?’
“He got all apologetic like it was all a big misunderstanding and that he loves rap and is not racist. And then he patted me on the back and said, ‘Come on, don’t be like that. I’m half Asian. You can call me Bruce Lee if you want,’ and I was just like, ‘Dude, I don’t want to call you Bruce Lee.’
“It was all a joke to him. I couldn’t get him to be serious. It really upset me because my father is always caring about what other people think about us and has really internalized racism. Like, that we have to set an example that not all black people are ghetto. That’s why he always pushed jazz music on me and here is this guy saying, ‘Don’t worry… I like rap too.’
“As if he was trying to talk to me in terms he thought I would understand. No offense to rap aficionados but, please don’t assume anything about me simply based on my skin. The whole thing is problematic in itself, but when this guy did that, I just wanted to seriously ask, ‘Why did you equate me with some urban caricature?'”
Jerome Wren
Jerome Wren’s story is not only appalling but eerily too familiar, with the headlining altercations between people of color and police which have resulted in the loss of human life. “I’m a survivor of police brutality and racial profiling. Many folks wouldn’t believe that I was beaten and Tased by six cops here in Davis but it happened. My mentor and I were minding our own business at my apartment complex when the police pulled up and singled me out. There was no questions– the first words they said was, ‘You’re under arrest.’ I can’t help but to think it had everything to do with my blackness.” (Editor’s note: The Vanguard covered this story in 2012. Initial article – Sustained Complaint, Officer Fired)
Markell
Markell studies Neurology, Physiology & Behavior at UCD, but finds himself constantly having to prove that he is allowed to be on campus and is part of the community. “My freshman year I was walking on campus and I was followed by the police while I walked to class. They asked me what are you doing here, only for me to say I go here…And, when me and my friends walk in to parties some of the white people there always ask, ‘Do y’all go here?’ We say yes. They say, ‘Oh, okay cool, what do you study?’ and then it turns into a interview of me being established at this school. But honestly, in classes, on buses, solely because you’re black no one will sit by you.” Markell also recounts one of the most prolific questions pushed on the black community: “Can I touch your hair?”
Markus King
Marcus King emerged onto the Davis campus from the redlined community of South Central LA. With a Psychology & Communications Studies degree now under his belt, he is currently gathering his ducks in a row to prepare for law school. Marcus’ experiences touch on a theme which has been present among many the individuals I had the pleasure of interviewing for this thread. It speaks to law enforcement’s hyperfocus on black bodies as signifiers of an impending threat or as foreshadowings of crimes yet to be committed.
Most of the incidents which stand out to him involved the feelings of injustice which arise when the old adage is flipped and people of color are instead guilty until proven innocent. When one must provide substantiation that they mean no harm, that they are allowed to be there, and that the only thing suspicious about their presence is that they are an African American person in an overwhelmingly white space.
“The first incident that I can think of was actually the day of my very first midterm. I was at that light – that main intersection that leads into the student parking lot. I came to make that left turn, my back window was rolled down, and I glanced over and happened to see a cop next to me. My first reaction was to smile, my mom always said when you make eye contact with someone you acknowledge them, and so I made my turn.
“As I pulled up to get the ticket to park and pay, the lights came up behind me.”
Marcus was then approached by the officer who said he was pulling him over because his music was too loud. When the officer saw Marcus had something in his hand, he reached for his gun. Upon realization that the student was unarmed, a second officer cuffed Marcus and put him in the back of the police car. Marcus was interrogated about previous unpaid tickets and the stipulations of his license, but was finally released. He was one hour late for the midterm he arrived early to study for.
“UC Davis is a good school, but on the other hand, it’s hard to go to a predominately white place. [To the police] I’m seen as somebody that’s undesirable, a nuisance, and then it leaves me wondering what I could have done different, or just questioning the whole thing. Like, is it because I’m black? Is it because of the music I listen to? Is it because of my shades? And when these microaggressions happen to you, you try to play the scene over and over in your head and think, what could I have done differently? I didn’t expect to see the [UC Davis] police behave in that manner, and I’m from South Central LA. I mean, if we’re always talking about how progressive things are in Davis, why the are the police so confrontational?”
Jerika L.H., once again thank you for your article. I ‘listened’ and as a Davis resident, am saddened by the experiences these students have experienced in my town. My recently ‘acquired’ daughter in law who is black has tried to explain to me the way it is: she feels that black people are not given the ‘benefit of the doubt’ by others, especially law enforcement. That has helped me understand and hopefully be more compassionate. These stories appear to reinforce that thought.
I saw an interesting interchange on CNN last night in relation to the crazy election but the basis was that a color blind society is NOT what we want; that would negate the rich cultural differences we all can benefit from…..admiration for those differences and granting that important benefit of the doubt might be a step….
Hi SODA
My son’s significant other also attends UCD. She is a Chicana whose skin color and appearance also make her stand out on the campus as “different” from the majority white or Asian students and she has had multiple encounters that mirror those related here. She is currently involved in reviewing for the university cases of perceived race related events. In the some of the instances that she was sharing, the behavior clearly stems from nothing more than looking “different” from the majority and thus having one’s reason for being on campus at all challenged. I think that it would benefit all of us to ask how we would feel if our presence in a place we had every right to be were repetitively challenged simply because of our appearance.
Hi Tia! Yes, repeatedly challenged because no benefit of the doubt is something that we have difficulty relating to, even if those we love relate their experiences to us. Am sure you are familiar with ways of having health care workers mimic certain disabilities (hearings vision, mobility) so that they can sense what their patients experience. NOT to say at all that racial difference is a disability…..but if the ‘majority’ could experience what you describe, I think it could profoundly change ‘our’ perceptions. Agree?
SODA
I agree. I believe that every opportunity to see the world through the eyes of someone different from us is a chance to expand our view of the world. If we all engaged in this type of experience, which is now common in medical training, we would have a much better understanding or the reality that others face daily.
“It speaks to law enforcement’s hyperfocus on black bodies as signifiers of an impending threat or as foreshadowings of crimes yet to be committed.”
YES!!! Nailed it.
And ya’ll are officially invited. LOL #WhitePeopleInvitedToTheCookout
LaMaruja
“#WhitePeopleInvitedToTheCookout”
I presume that this is something on Twitter, which I do not use. However, I do like invitations 😉
Can you give particulars to this event here on the Vanguard ?
If we fail to also include the consideration that hypersensitivity is a factor at play, we will never fully brigde our racial gaps.
And I would say the opposite. I think there is a portion of the population is that is not nearly sensitive enough to this stuff. Part of what you’re missing are that these examples are not isolated incidents. They happen every day. A classic example I like to give is how many times do you think things happened to Eli Davis before he finally decided to go against his inclinations as a quiet, private person and actually speak out?
The other problem is that in my experience, most blacks live with these things are on a regular basis and most whites are unaware of either their occurrence or their impact.
Every single time this site has tried to raise these issues, we get people like you pushing back to minimize them. You belittle people with notions of hypersensitivity and victimhood.
So I would argue that we will never fully bridge our racial gaps until white people are willing to embrace the fact that blacks and other people of color feel marginalized by the conduct and the attempts to minimize that conduct.
Whenever, where ever a person goes, if that person does not look, dress or act like what are the normal standards of the majority, that person will get more attention.
You can have two extreme reactions to that. One is the hypersensitive reaction. The other is to understand and be empathetic to how others process difference.
“You can have two extreme reactions to that. One is the hypersensitive reaction. The other is to understand and be empathetic to how others process difference.”
Why is it hypersensitive to get tired of being pulled over or questioned or dealt with suspicion by others due to skin color?
Frankly
“The other is to understand and be empathetic to how others process difference.”
And does this not apply equally to the members of the majority who feel no need attempt to understand and empathize with the minority individual ?
Tia, you assume a whole lot. For example, when police officers pull over a car for an infraction, or when they investigate a murder or domestic violence call, rarely do they know the ethnicity of the individuals involved.
We will never bridge the gaps until folk realize that not every [or even most] white person is racist, and not every ‘minority’ is marginalized/abused… only then can we focus on the true problem areas.
You said, “until white people [looks like you are implying all white people are the same] are willing to embrace the fact that blacks and other people of color [ibid.] feel marginalized by the conduct”.
If you’re saying that all whites bear the guilt, and should “do the time”, then perhaps I should start “doing the crime” [I’d never be able to do that]… oh, and minority groups NEVER act in a way to ‘marginalize’ other minority groups, nor ‘whites’, right?
The marginalizing behavior is WRONG, no matter who does it, or who the recipient is. Whether it is on racial, other ethnic, religious, political, appearance (ex. obesity), or other lines.
I think that’s why concepts like implicit bias are so important. It’s not that every white person is consciously and overtly racist, it’s rather that when we see someone who fits a certain profile, hair style, they stand out more and access our pre-programmed responses. For police officers that may manifest itself with viewing them with suspicion, for citizens that may mean we clutch our purposes more tightly or tense up or flee or some other response.
So Pugilist, you are saying/implying that all ‘whites’ have implicit bias, that it is unique to the ‘white’ race? It doesn’t exist in other races? Police and other “authorities” aside, which is a separate but linked issue, yes I will “clutch my purpose” [which is to live a good, caring, honest life] tightly.
Actually, I am saying the scientific research shows everyone is biased: http://www.boston.com/news/science/blogs/science-in-mind/2013/02/05/everyone-biased-harvard-professor-work-reveals-barely-know-our-own-minds/7x5K4gvrvaT5d3vpDaXC1K/blog.html
From Ohio State University: http://kirwaninstitute.osu.edu/research/understanding-implicit-bias/
What about the implicit bias of someone that “is sure” that “the look” they noted was due to racial bias of the looker?
What about the criticism of “not feeling safe” is rooted in a personal inability to cope with what are general human interactions and relationship challenges, but instead are projected as racial intollerance?
In other words, maybe there is a similar percentage of people of all races that struggle with this ability to cope… being highly sensitized to any indication that someone does not like them, or is critical of them, or is supicious of them… but people of some races don’t go to the exlanation of racism and hence are more likely to identify the issue as a personal one that must be overcome, rather than some systemic social problem that politics must solve. If this is the case, and I think it is, then the social justice crusader implicit bias narrative would be harmful in denying these people the opportunity to recogize the need for helpful personal development.
For example, I will quickly determine who has a hypersensitive chip on their soulder and will not hire them.
“What about the implicit bias of someone that “is sure” that “the look” they noted was due to racial bias of the looker?”
Unfortunately you are using words that have a specific meaning and trying to use them in a context for which they were not intended. You’re not describing “implicit bias.” You are also shifting the meaning of the term implicit bias when you write “due to racial bias of the looker.” At least from the account provided in the article, the father was pulled over by police based on his appearance, that doesn’t mean the police were racially biased, but it does mean that his appearance was deemed suspicious possibly based on stereotypes.
Do you have any experience with risk assessment and risk management?
Do you you disagree that there are observable differences with different racial groups and subgroups?
For example, if you want to prevent mass shooting, why would you not have a bias for suspecting young white males in their 20s?
If we are talking about racism here, what about PDs that have a majority of black officers? Why not the implicit bias against Asians?
Implicit bias is a concept that is misused and is in fact a construct for political manipulation and social engineering more than it is useful for improving the human condition.
> it’s rather that when we see someone who fits a certain profile, hair
> style, they stand out more and access our pre-programmed responses.
> For police officers that may manifest itself with viewing them with suspicion,
EVERYONE (of ALL races) and ALL police officers react to people who “stand out” (unless you want to correct me and say that because the guy in the link below is white that no one including the police would notice him if he spent a day on the UCD campus).
http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-vBQvX5CW5Uw/TnLVeAk_jUI/AAAAAAAAQi8/rOp4y4BeUCk/s1600/Picture-65-650×473+%25281%2529.png
The pugilist
Funny, DP used to.always harp about implicit bias too.
Do you read the news? Implicit bias isn’t some novel concept.
Whatever, DP.
One young man let out right away with the current brainwashing on college campuses = “micro aggression’s”.
Heightened Sensitivity meets Liberal Guilt?
How is it that when we have 2x or 3x the black students as 30 years ago, and white students are now under-represented, that alleged racism exists everywhere?
Does this calculus suggest that Asian American students are racist? Or merely liberal college students?
Here is the hierarchy in a liberal college town after the BlackLivesMatter hysteria.
1. Student held up at gunpoint by Hispanic male in West Davis Tuesday night = no fanfare.
http://www.davisenterprise.com/local-news/crime-fire-courts/man-robbed-at-gunpoint-in-west-davis/
2. Elderly Davis resident Cynthia Jonasen killed by a speeding reckless driver high on drugs and booze on Feb. 24th = no fanfare.
The suspect has previously been found guilty on charges of burglary and domestic violence. He was given bail on his recent DV convictions. Four children were in the car with the suspect, Steven Hendrix, unrestrained. (Child endangerment.)
Hendrix is African American.
3. A young female student allegedly has racial slurs and objects hurled at her by intoxicated white citizens = campus uproar.
So your saying that Hendrix was prejudice against Cynthia Jonasen?
The Liberal media and political movements distort what type of actual crimes are being committed.
Aren’t repeated violent crimes worthy of consideration? Instead, the media ignores them.
Second, I have been told by on-campus sources that white students, and especially asian students, feel like they are a target for crime by people of color.
There are reportedly crimes committed where the criminals tell the victims not to report the crime or they will pay, and if they have stolen their laptop and iPhone, I guess they have reason to be concerned.
Worthy of consideration for what? It’s a separate issue. You are saying because Hendrix committed a crime, we should racially profile?
TBD
“How is it that when we have 2x or 3x the black students as 30 years ago, and white students are now under-represented, that alleged racism exists everywhere?”
I think that you are raising an important point that should be addressed. The students who are protesting today were not alive 30 years ago. They do not know from experience that their experience today is far different from the students of 30 years ago. They are judging only by their own experience which is exactly what many of those who have benefitted by being white are doing, namely using their own experience as the norm and not being able to appreciate the range of experiences of others, whether their predecessors or their peers.
There is another different but related point to consider. One poster here frequently implies that because we have a black president, that must mean that there is no significant amount of racism in the country. But this is a ridiculous claim. Would anyone claim that just because Nelson Mandela became the leader of South Africa, that meant that racism was obliterated or reduced to “de minims” in that country ?
Tia wrote:
> One poster here frequently implies that because we have a black president, that must
> mean that there is no significant amount of racism in the country.
I don’t recall anyone posting that, just that if the “majority” of Americans and around 80% of the people in Davis voted for a black man that there is a safe bet that “most” people are not racist. We all know that (sadly) there are racists (of ALL races) in America…
South of Davis
In response to the picture you posted, I do not think that anyone is claiming that there aren’t some individuals who adopt a certain appearance specifically to stand out and to differentiate themselves. If such an individual draws what they see as “undue attention” they have the option of taking out their piercings, covering their tattoos and/or hairstyle.
However, if you look at the pictures of the 300 on campus protesters, the vast majority of them do not appear to be dressed or styled so as to make themselves stand out. They are simply college students who are drawing attention to the fact that they experience being singled out simply because of the color of their skin. True some of their experiences may not be truly racist but maybe genuine curiosity, or naivete such as the requests to touch their hair, which my very white daughter frequently got because of the nature of her very curly hair, but those that involve crude attempts at racial humor or derogatory racially based comments are unequivocal and should not be trivialized or denied. It is the perpetrator that needs to work on their basic humanity, not the victim who needs to develop a “thicker skin”.
Tia wrote:
> If such an individual draws what they see as “undue attention”
> they have the option of taking out their piercings, covering their
> tattoos and/or hairstyle.
One of the examples above was a “6’2″ Jamaican man with dreadlocks”. I don’t have a problem with people (of any race) having dreadlocks, but when you get “undue” attention it probably has more to do with the hairstyle (and clothing since I’ve never seen anyone with dreads in a polo shirt and khakis) than the color of your skin. I have a (white) friend with long hair and a long beard (think Duck Dynasty meets ZZ Top) and he gets a lot of attention (security would always want to know where he was going when he met for lunch since he did not blend in to the world of middle aged business people (of all races) in “business casual” at my office building)…
Really, somebody I think looked at me funny?
A guy clutched his girlfriend’s hand?
I know BP… what have we become? From lynching, outright racial hostility and materially-damanging racial discrimination to “he looked at me funny”.
I think we are seeing a post-civil rights societal devolution caused by the percetange of our population that are psychologically under-devloped, damaged and/or weak… leveraging this “implicit racial bias” narrative as a desparate refusal to get their sh _ _ together.
Usually, we are not justified in our expectations that others have a responsibility to make us feel better. Others are not responsible for our individual happiness… and everyone is better off figuring that out.
Is this the result of the fuzzy parenting of the children of the 60s and 70s?
I’ve seen that it affects many areas, not just racial topics. It also could be that we have less and less folks from the midwest, and fewer people who went through the Depression. We’re rich and spoiled. I heard someone recently remark on the radio, “A poor person today lives better tna most well-off people 100 years ago.”
Seems to me the “hypersensitivity” around race is all on the white privilege side. Why, when these issues come up, do we get treated to all the bulls*@t about how minorities and especially black folks just somehow need to grow up and get over it? And this from people who have no idea what it is like to have to move around in a world where if you’re black, your every movement is critiqued by white people. It is a fact that every, yes EVERY white person is TRAINED to be racist from an early age. None of us escaped it. The only difference is that some of us “get it” and understand what we have to do as individuals as well as collectively to mitigate or minimize our own training. It is part and parcel of being an American and a direct result of our history.
These testimonials are heart-breaking to listen to. Imagine any one of them being the testimonial of your own child. What would be your response if that were the case?
While many of these commenters, including me, have our own little anecdotes it only to me shows we are swinging back to the older biases instead of forward. Trying to be a part of another culture is hard, and being accepted even harder. You may spend your whole life getting “accepted” in one community, then twenty miles away you are perceived as an outsider.
At some point you give up. At least now there are Black people arguing for the Blacks, Hispanics for Hispanics, etc. NOW – We need the appropriate Police force to respond to each ethnic crime, because Whites “do not understand” another culture. I was told twenty years ago that “you will never be one of them”. Well, too bad, I thought I was learning something, and I did. Now, I could care less.
But the way Davis is heading, the PD will not have any weapons, rather will just be video guys. Then the Video will determine sentence, based on a sliding scale depending on race? Automation!!
Dave wrote:
> EVERY white person is TRAINED to be racist from an early age.
Do you really think Tia “TRAINED her kids to be racist”?
I must be one of the few that didn’t get this “training” can you let me know some details of the “training” you (and EVERY other white person) received?
> None of us escaped it.
So “EVERY” white person was “TRAINED” to be racist and “None” escaped it but we still had just about every white person in town vote for Obama (and the white kids at UCD elect a black femals AS President). Can you explain this?
No, I doubt Tia trained her children thus and I don’t even think anyone posting here including the usual anonymous V10 have actively trained their own children to be racist. It’s a social conditioning training that perpetuates itself in a million subtle ways.
For example, I never heard my parents use the ‘N’ word growing up in western Kansas where I was raised, but I remember driving in east Wichita (the black area) and my mother suddenly telling us to lock the doors on the car. Not another word was said. Us three kids in the back seat 13, 11 and 8 knew what she meant, because all of the sudden we were in an area of town where whites were in a conspicuous minority. Nothing explicit. But we could hear in her voice that she was alarmed and we could see out the window what was different from “normal”. We put two and two together in our own minds. That is how it is handed down from generation to generation and it is far more effective than explicit “teaching” of racial fear. If you are white, and if you are honest, you can recall similar situations.
Dave wrote:
> No, I doubt Tia trained her children thus and I don’t even think anyone
> posting here including the usual anonymous V10 have actively trained
> their own children to be racist.
Glad to hear that you don’t really think that EVERY one of us is a trained racist.
> I remember driving in east Wichita (the black area) and my mother
> suddenly telling us to lock the doors on the car.
I only remember my Mom telling us to lock the car once it was in a (mostly) white area when two white guys were walking around our car as we waited for my Dad to come home on the last train since he missed his carpool (we only had one car).
My grandfather died young and my grandmother who came to the US in her 20’s with a 6th grade education did not have a lot of job skills so she worked as a hospital cleaning lady with quite a few black women and my Mom grew up babysitting quite a few of their children.
Since my Mom kept in touch with a lot of my grandmother’s former co-workers and their kids (including a lady we called “momma” that sent me $1 for Christmas every year until she died in her 90’s when I was in High School) we went to a lot of mostly black funerals in the Western Addition (and even more mostly white funerals in the Sunset and Mission). We were always treated well even if we were the only white people int he church and I always felt that most went out of their way to make us feel comfortable.
“Do you really think Tia “TRAINED her kids to be racist”?”
Dave wrote a good response to this already, but since my name was invoked, I’d like to share my response.
I certainly did not deliberately train my kids to be racist. To the best of my ability, I modeled for my children an acceptance of each individual based on their character and behavior, not their appearance. But herein lies part of the problem. My mother and and father would never have admitted to being racist. And yet my sister and I, while being expected to be polite to everyone in public, were never allowed to visit the homes of anyone other than whites. After my father’s death and my mothers re marriage years later, no “n…….s” were allowed in the house. This was my background, and despite my best efforts to not pass on any of these attitudes, was I successful ? I don’t know, after all, my mother also claimed that she was not racist ! This is the hallmark of implicit bias. When you add to that our educational system, which at the time I was in school had virtually all white characters in our picture and history books, rare mention of blacks or others in the stories told about the development of our nation I think it would be very hard to have not developed and carried some bias along the way whether I knew it was happening or not.
Tia wrote:
> at the time I was in school had virtually all white characters
> in our picture and history books
I know it it not polite to talk a woman’s age but there are some UC Davis students who have grandmothers around Tia’s age.
Just like things were a lot different in the late 1800’s (when Tia’s grandmother probably started school) they are a LOT different today.
I was not joking when I say that I have NEVER seen a white male doctor in any children’s book or cartoon in over a decade.
Whites are a little over half the population of the state today but I have never seen a school book with more than half white people (and since in our family we focus on learning not counting the people of color in the books I don’t care)…
Thank you Dave Hart!
Ridiculous.
Bottom line on all of this is that if you’re white and see racism as a serious issue, you must take white privilege to heart. You have to accept that it exists. It’s no different than the problem of the alcoholic or drug abuser. The first step is to acknowledge you have a problem. If you can’t do that, you are the problem. I accept that it is a big step to take, particularly if you’re one of those who denies white privilege exists, but your soul will remain stunted unless you get past that one. You’ll feel a burden lift when you at least acknowledge it, when “you git it in your soul”.
I think some of the souls on here are burdened with white guilt.
I consider this offensive. My wife and family are people of color. Several other people have noted that they are in similar boats.
Why do you consider that offensive? Do you not think there’s such a thing as white guilt? I’m sure many consider the term white privilege offensive too but that doesn’t stop it from being thrown around on this blog.
Because its dismissive of people’s legitimate concerns and ignores the fact that many white people, including myself, have family who are impacted by this stuff. I’ve never used the term white privilege.
David wrote:
> I’ve never used the term white privilege.
Except in January when you typed
“Our criminal laws made it a crime to be black in places of white privilege.”
when quoting someone in the body of your Blog post.
https://davisvanguard.org/2016/01/mlk-day-message-criminal-justice-system-racially-constructed-from-the-start/
That was a direct quote of the speaker.
David wrote:
> That was a direct quote of the speaker.
That YOU typed in your blog (for the second time in a year):
https://davisvanguard.org/2015/08/monday-morning-thoughts-do-whites-really-want-to-be-part-of-the-race-conversation/